Watch the following video and see how the girl must feel as she goes through her day. We continue to hear and say that we won’t bully and we won’t be bystanders but do we put ourselves in the shoes of those who are bullied? Are we empathizing with what the day must be like? For your weekly blog post this week, I would like you to write the story of the bullied character’s day. Not the day where it gets better but the day before. Write her story from when she gets up one morning to when she goes to bed. Include interactions with her parents, her teachers and her friends. If we can try to understand a little more how it feels to live that life, maybe we can work even harder to make a difference in the lives of those around us.
Kate
11/24/2016 05:27:22 pm
"Mother please." I beg. "My head really hurts." I fib. My mom shakes her head. "You're fine." She insists. "But-" "No." she cuts me off. "You're going to school today." I let out a collective sigh. My mother has to work, so I walk to school alone. No one talks to me anymore. I pass the cemetery and see my dad's tombstone. Tears leak out the corners of my eyes, the grief of the funeral three weeks ago still fresh. I walk into the school with my head down. "Wimp." One kid whispers to his friend and they quickly move on. "Crybaby, crybaby." Someone starts chanting. I see Chantelle, my best friend standing at her locker ahead. I start to smile, but she rushes away at the sight of me. If only everyone knew about my dad. The day drags on, and I keep my head down low. "You all right?" My science teacher asks me. "Fine." I say shortly, briskly moving along. Chantelle doesn't talk to me, but I see her whispering to some other girls. I pull at a thread on my black clothing. When they day ends, I hurry home. I read quietly in my room, only coming down for dinner. "Are you all right Willow?" She asks. I deftly nod my head. At 10:00, I go back up to my room. I pull the covers of my bed up to my chin and turn out the light. I can't get to sleep though. I never can these days.
Juliana
11/25/2016 09:33:59 am
As i hear the alarm buzz, i sigh, just another one of these days, i get out of bed and look at myself in the mirror, i can already hear everyone chanting " ugly " and loser and more. I finally get downstairs and i tell my mom i have a bad stomach ache and i feel like im gonna throw up. Thats nonsense says my mom. Your going to school and thats that. I run upstairs with tears in my eyes. I get dressed into the nicest outfit i can wear to school. I walk out the door with tears still in my eyes and i walk up to my friend. She runs away. Wimp... Loser... i hear down the street. I went through the day with people calling me things all day. I ignored them. As i came up into bed i saw my mom on my bed. Hi honey how was school?! Good. I said. She said okay. And went downstairs. I went through the night thinking all about it and at the end of the night, i tucked into bed hoping tomorrow will be a new day.
Connor
11/25/2016 09:41:21 am
Mom I feel sick can I stay home today? No sunshine you feel good today but I don't feel good, all the kids are picking on me and bullying me. You probably are just saying that because you don't like school because you think its boring. No I don't like school because of everyone making fun of me. Just go to school you will be fine, Bye sunshine I'm going to work bye "sobbing" [Door Shuts] [walking to school by herself] Hahaha you look good today SUNSHINE "Bully's laughing" [After class] Haha looser, Nerd, Dummy, You Have No friends, Haha. "Walking down the hall' Are you okay today? I'm fine "Walking away to another class" [Sticky notes on her saying Looser] "walks away" Are you okay [Teacher Asks] Ya I'm fine "but not really" [At home] "Crying in bed" Sunshine its Dinner. I'm not hungry. "Falls going to Sleep" I'm never going to school again [She says to herself] "Falls asleep with nightmares"
Henry
11/25/2016 12:42:05 pm
Mom today I don't want go to school OK?No! my mom say,you must go to school. OK I sigh a cry.Because at yesterday I'm the last one at final examination.Because me,the class is last at school too.My classmate is both accusations to me.Are you fell OK my math teacher ask me.No,I mean yes.Finally I'm go home to sleep.Maybe tomorrow will better today I think.
Feroz
11/26/2016 01:33:44 pm
Mom I feel sick I can't go to my school.!! I say.You have to go to school my mom say in her nice voice. Can't I just take a break from school I say sadly. No ! my moms voice rises slightly. I sigh as I grab my backpack and head out the door . As I arrived the schoolyard I here kids shouting HEY LOSER !!! They were were calling in on me . I did my best ignoring them though they would kick my backpack and put kick me signs on me and hit their shoulder into my stomach.My eyes were burning with tears . When I arrived towards french I didn't say a word . My teacher asked me a question . I said I don't understand it. All the kids were laughing at me . When I arrived home I had voices chanting in my head from school and I was wishing and praying that tomorrow would be a better day.
Hudson
11/28/2016 01:02:49 pm
As she heard her alarm clock go off, a wave of sadness went over her. It was Thursday. As she got out of bed her mom came in. " Good morning" said mom " are you ready for school". "Yah" she said. She wanted to say no but something was holding her back. She got herself ready and ate. Then she headed to the bus stop.
megan
11/28/2016 01:36:48 pm
I woke up with a start ever since people started calling me names and trieing to make me mad I had night mares every night. They always say there kidding and that they are playing. So I never tell any one and even if I did wouldn't they just say it is ok, that's it. I never wanted to go to school so I started to learn to act. I used this trick a lot and I was happy it worked. My mom called me I did the morning ruteen. I tried to leave with out my bag so I would get of school the plan was spoted by my mom. "sweetie you forgot your bag". "ohh yay" I said it more down then I ment to. " why is it you always forget your bag?". this was a problem I hated lieing but I found my self doing it all the time. "um I don't know?" "there is somthing ulse" i insisted that school was fun and I had friends. I left in a rush to get away from the questions. I slowed down after I was never in to much of a rush. I heard the bell school! I stoped I was here. A nother bad day. Well her goes nothing a forst a smile it lasted 2 seconeds. I sat down at my desk the subjects went on and on but there were some mothing words and notes passed. They were ether to me a threat or about me. it is easy to tell by peoples faces witch it was. It was lunch It was the worst. They all came up to me started to call me names, throughig my lunch in the trush. I always got made I yelled out "that doesn't go in the compost it goes in the trush or the other way around". Everyone burst out laughing there heads off. I realised that they wanted that it was why they did it. They just said don't listen to us du! I couldn't it always was there folowing me around every were. After the bell I asked if I could go home because I was sick. When I got to my room tears started to race I tried to hold them back in the car but now it was inposible I never wanted to go back to school but I was never gone for good. I maniged to say what will be tomorow?! ( and to add to this I felt so bad I didn't put capital for my name)
Brian
11/28/2016 01:49:40 pm
As Zoe woke up in the morning the memories of the weekend washed over her like ocean waves. On her weekend her mother had passed away from cancer. She just lives with her dad now. Zoe walked down stairs and got bread with butter and sweet honey ready for breakfast that morning. Her dad came down and ate with her, she enjoyed that her dad ate with her. She dragged her self up stairs. Her father asked "what wrong cupcake". Nothing she muttered as she walked away. She got dressed quickly and walked down stairs. Her dad drove her to school, he said goodbye and have a great day. As Zoe walked into the classroom, people muttered "why her" and "you suck" to her. She berried her head in her arms for the rest of the class. When the class was over and everyone was out of the room she felt a tap on her shoulder and turned to see the teacher Mr.Scorpion (it was the best I could think of). He said "are you all right Zoe, you seem a bit sad" He said. "Everyone is always mean to me because I am bad a sports" She said back and walked out of the class room. She managed to get through the day with only 58 put downs. "That's a new record" Zoe thought bitterly. As she was walking home she heard a couple of the boys behind her yelling mean names at me. "Make that 65 put downs" she thought. She sprinted home that day thinking "if only they knew how I feel". That night she cried herself to sleep. The next morning she woke up and thought "WHY ME".
Emran
11/28/2016 02:44:18 pm
As my eyes adjusted to the sun, peeking in through the window I got out of bed. As I moved the creaky floorboard echoed through the empty room. JUST ANOTHER awful DAY, I say to myself. I headed downstairs, slowly, thinking of an alibi. I started to think harder, I tripped and rolled down the stairs. Pain sizzled down my spine and I jerked my head up in pain. "Come on Emily, that's the third time you have tripped this week. You are going to school." I got ready and got out the door. Dark clouds gathered up above me. It rained heavily and pellets of rain dropped on me.
Alex
11/28/2016 04:07:03 pm
as she awoke.she knew she was going to be bullied again.so thats what she did.in 1st period people all were being mean to her.they were calling her names like loser,sucker,racist and lier.but then she then left class.then some people asked if she is ok and she said yes but in honesty she didn't really feel because theirs only one thing that happened to her everyday then some people came to help her but she didn't realize them.then the bell rang to go home and people still called her names like short face and loser.then she went home and cryed like she always does.cause of the beep bullys.then she evuntally came down after 3 hours of hard rage and sadness.(i wanted to say some swear words but i kept it kid friendly cause i am a nice person)oh why do they talk about themself when the put loser and small face.well she then went to bed at 10 to 9 after her parents had a talk about ingorning bullies.sorry also beep bullies.bye
Tomas
11/29/2016 04:57:35 pm
Felicity
11/29/2016 05:51:49 pm
I have been bullied befor it is not fun we all need to stand together not alone. If we stand together we might be able to leave bullying in the past.
Felicity
11/30/2016 05:48:49 pm
Bullying is not fun it can lead to suicide and jail. Over 1200 kids yearly commit suicide from bullies and 98.5% of those bullies are sent to jail.
Nathan
12/1/2016 02:23:08 pm
Felicity, amazing job, bullying is an unspoken problem that we need to fix, thanks for the wonderful story!
Felicity (Fixer)
11/29/2016 05:59:54 pm
went to class.
Jacqueline
11/29/2016 06:37:22 pm
The alarm clock is ringing loudly on the morning, I wake up by the noisy of the clock. Suddenly, my mom is calling me, "Honey, get up! Have your breakfast downstairs!" I open the door and say, “Ok.” I feel badly because I was bullied by my classmates yesterday. “I’m just like a robot to do same things everyday.” I say to myself. I am putting on my clothes and cleaning my face and teeth, then I walk downstairs and eat my breakfast.
Ava
11/30/2016 12:51:03 pm
Mother please. I wine. My head hurts a lot. I lie. No, your going to school. But-. No, buts you are going to school. Fine. I said with a sigh. I ate my breakfast and hurried out the door. My mom works so, everyday I have to walk to school alone. I walked and saw lots of kids walked to school also. None of them said hi to me or even looked at me. The whole way I looked down at my shoes. Finally I looked up and saw to school. "Here goes nothing". I thought to myself. I walked into the school and suddenly I saw everybody turn and look at me. Lots of kids were whispering to there friend. Probably they were talking about me. I thought. Then I heard the bell ring. I slowly walked therw the halls to my first class. I quickly sat in my seat and saw everyone looking at me again. After my class, everyone walked by me and were talking to there friends. I heard them talking about me. I walked slowly to my next class. A teacher walked by me, and saw my face and asked me if I was okay. Of course I said yes, but, I really was not. I went into my class and sat down. People never sat next to me ever. finally the day was over. I left the school, thinking about my day. This is going to be a long year. I thought in my head. I walked quickly home. Soon it was 9:00 o'clock and I got ready for bed. Hopefully tomorrow we be a better day.
Haya
11/30/2016 04:23:52 pm
I woke up at morning I got dressed I looked at the mirror I could hear People saying loser ugly what are you wearing a trash bag I stared crying with tears falling g on my dress.I went downstairs my mom asked are you okay i said I am fine i walked out of the door i felt i wind saying it's going to be a hard day i walked with my friend i felt she is not happy with me as a friend she said (oooh i forgot my book) then she left i saw the book in her bag.Iwent throw that hard day my mom ask ( how was school today) i said good from the inside I am crying with tears non stop.I tucked inside my bed said to my self tomorrow might be better
Amy
12/1/2016 12:49:25 pm
I walked slowly downstairs as my mom call me for breakfast. The smell foods being toasted, but I didn't want to eat at all. "Come on, honey, or else we'll be late." I felt sick, "Mom, I don't want to go to school." I said quietly after a few seconds. "No, you have to go, I've got to work." I sighed. I opened the door and stepped out. People was chatting with each other and giggling, nobody looked at me or even noticed me. Always the same. I thought. I walked slowly down the street, the sight of the street blurred as the tears leaked out from the corners my eyes, I sighed as a few girls walked passed me, giggling and glancing as me. The sight of the school came and I marched faster toward. I saw my friend Casey down the hall, I waved to her and smiled, but she didn't smile back. Of course, no one even wants to be my friend. I thought as I kept walking. "Look!" People was pointing at me, laughing and talking behind me, I tried to avoid the eyes and keep walking to the class. When I came to class, nothing got better. No one even play with me, talk to me, or even noticed me. Maybe I shouldn't came after all.
Ameer
12/1/2016 01:35:41 pm
I got out of bed going to the bathroom to brush my teeth. when I came down stairs I begged my mom to let me stay home she asked why and I said there's a test and I am not ready for it (I was lying I was actually getting bullied)NO! But mom come on were going said mom Okkkkkk I said. when I got to school every thing was fine but at lunch a boy walked up behind me and poured a full bottle of glue every buddy in the room started laughing really hard I got up an ran to the girls bathroom and started crying. Last period was math when the teacher was teaching some buddy kept throwing paper balls at me at the end of class a teacher asked me if I was ok I said yes but I really was not. when I got home my mom made macoroni I did my home work and I scratched my back and found a note that said nerd on my back I was sad I lay on my bed awake for an hour all sad after a hour I fell a sleep.
Lin Xin
12/1/2016 02:08:30 pm
As I woke up, I remembered that I had school. Just great, I thought. I hate school. All that teasing, I just hate it.
Nathan
12/1/2016 02:32:13 pm
"Mom, I'm sick" I say slowly. My Mom's stare canceled my feelings.
Daniel
12/1/2016 02:37:40 pm
A beautiful sunshine, approached as she woke up in the morning. The alarm clock buzzed, and it indicated into her ear drums. It was quite a bit of a shock or distraction from her point of view. When she went down the stairs slightly, the footsteps made noises. Her parents heard something very awkward at that time. - She groaned with a bad attitude, "Mmmmmmmmm!" Her parents were sobbing in tears and they didn't knew what happened. A couple hours later, she wasn't feeling that frustrated at school. In a while sudden moment, kids started to tease her with very emotional aggressive words. It was very heartbreaking, which it ruined her day so much. At lunchtime, even more negative things happened. She was a lonely, eating by herself. The noise was also very loud, it leads to a headache. Everyone was staring at her eyes, and it startled her. As lunch time ended, the bell ring on a full blast volume. She went out her classroom, and slammed the door so hard. She went down the hallway with a negative expression on her face. In a minute, one teacher came close to her and she replied nothing. Another friend went past down the hallway and smiled. She won't smile back and her friend was flabbergasted. She after put her lunch bag away and still the haters won't stop teasing her. She was almost down on her knees begging for someone to help. She then left the hallway, and went to her classroom. Again, the bullies won't stop constantly bully her. Just in a minute, her friends came to save her. Her friends came to save with holding signs that said (Stop bullying!) The bullies were such in shame and decided to apologize. She sat down on a chair among the other students waiting for the teacher. After when she sat down, all the haters regretted her for the things they've done. Later, her heart putted back into pieces and it really nailed her day. Everything seemed very delightful aftermath. They suddenly all have a very happy expression on their face. The end!
Daniel (x2)
12/1/2016 04:31:07 pm
Don't mind about the last sentence of the story "The end!" and also don't mind the last paragraph.
Evan
12/1/2016 04:35:01 pm
I wake up in the morning and I don't want to go to school. When my parents ask me if I'm OK I say yes I'm fine but I'm not really fine. My mom and dad would drive me to school.No one would want to play with me at the playground, before the bell rang then I went to class. I felt like no one liked me and were calling me names. Then the teacher asked me are you okay I said yes but I'm not really ok. Then we went outside for recess, I didn't get people to play with me at the playground but I heard some people talking about me behind my back. I was going to tell the teacher at the playground but they said if I told I would get punched in the face. Then I went to the cafeteria for lunch, I went to sit at a table with lots of people and then they moved when I sat down. Then principal asked me if I was ok I said I was but I'm really not.I have no friends that's why no one is sitting beside me or playing with me at the playground. Then it was last period again, I really wanted to go home but I didn't because I was worried they would talk about me when I'm gone or they may think I'm a crybaby. On the car ride home my mom asked me how was school? I said it was great but it wasn't really great.Then we had dinner We had did High low and funny I didn't want to answer any of them but I did answer the high and the funny But I lied Because I didn't want to tell them the truth about I was being bullied. Then I went to bed and my mom and dad Read to me Then I fell asleep.
Rumaysa
12/1/2016 05:09:34 pm
Alice woke up, and groaned.Great. another day at school..... she thought. Alice got out of bed, and did her daily morning routine. "mom, i dont think i can go to school today......" she tells her mom dramatically, faking the flu symptoms. "why not?" her mother asks. "i... i dont feel well today!" she answers back. Her mother checks her temperature, and shakes her head. "your fine. dont worry." Alice groans once more, and eats some toast, flings on her backpack and runs out the door. Later on, as she arrives at school she hears the first whispers coming at her, barley audible, yet louder than a lion. "look at her. nerd. weirdo." she hears an older kid shout "HA! LOSER!" she looks down, and continues walking. she passes by a teacher, who was gazing at her with concern in her eyes. "are you alright, alice?" she asks. "yeah, im fine." alice replies. she walks off and whispers to herself. "but im really not."
Rumaysa (i forgot to add on)
12/1/2016 06:11:55 pm
Alice then walks off, and after all of her classes she sits down at the lunch room. she hears other kids whispering, snickering, and pointing at her. someone came over and burned her. (like the insulting burn, not the ouch, its hot. burn.) she sighed, and began to eat her food.later, she was waiting for her bus. one of the popular girls sashayed over, and flicked their blond hair. "someone here is lonely dont you think? awwwww, look at the ANIMAL!" everyone laughed. tears filled Alice's eyes. she waited a few more minutes, and was grateful when the bus arrived. she sat alone, and read until it was her stop. she stepped off, and ran into her house. her mother came down and asked if she was ok. "im..... fine, mum." Alice answered. she ran to her bedroom, and sat on her bed for the rest of the day. after dinner, whitch was, by the way, lasagna, she went to sleep, negative thoughts circulating her head.
Thomas C.
12/1/2016 05:11:45 pm
I woke up a knew it would be a good day, after all it was only my friend that was getting bullied. Not me. Some other kids started to tease me though, I started to think about what I should do (1. Still be best friends with Brittney, 2. Not be friends with her and tease her like the other kids) I didn't know what to do, after all we were only in 6th grade, this was one a year ago. I chose the worst choice that I could've chose and chose to not hang out with her and started teasing her. I'm telling this story now because since last year she has been begging her parents to be home schooled every single day. When it finally happened not only me realized how amazing of a person she was, but the bullies too.
Josh third person
12/1/2016 05:16:51 pm
Good morning everyone! What a wonderful day today! Another nice day to take off the calender! And another awesome day to go to school. "Come one Chloe, you'll be late!"
Raisa
12/6/2016 02:30:58 pm
She stopped being able to sleep well at night. She would lay on her bed thinking: " I have lived in Canada for so many years, and I have never met anyone so mean. I was lucky to meet people who were nice and fair with me. I thought noone will hurt your feelings on purpose for no reason. And my school is supposed to be a safe and friendly place. This big bully seems to be so powerful but he behaves like putting others down is fun. And there seem to be people that would put the other person down to impress him or to earn his favour. Some of them would do that because they would get a reward and some of them because they have their "arm twisted" and they want to be left alone. The big bully doesn't bully for nothing. He bullies if he wants something from you. I think that's called blackmail or extortion? I told the bully many times to leave me alone and that I feel depressed. The bully doesn't pay attention. He would stop his bullying for a while or he would do something that looks like he is doing a nice thing for you but it's really not, however, others would think that he really is doing something nice unless they know better. He might also get others to bully you for him. That way, he doesn't look bad and it's hard to prove that he is the bully. I can't believe that there are people who would bully for him out of their free will. They don't understand that they can become the bullied themselves. I don't want to wake up. May be it is all a dream? I'd like to get to the end of it and never be bullied again... Comments are closed.
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